Rules for Traveling with Teens

1. Give them some space both physically, by opting for multiple rooms, and mentally, by not planning an overloaded touring schedule.

2. Get them involved in the planning stage. Guide books might be a new and exciting experience, and contacting state and local departments of tourism and chambers of commerce will help them sharpen their communication skills.

3. Go where teens are. Kids often like the company of their peers.

4. Choose an area or resort with some time of nighttime activities. Night life is always big for teens.

5. Set a budget for incidental spending, and stick to it. Teens often need help in saving those dollars.

6. Allow them some free time to pursue their own interests. Maybe even give them a few dollars for pizza while you have a romantic dinner for two.

7. If they pack it, they have to carry it. Even if they have to practice carrying all their things around the block

8. Let them sleep in sometimes. They have to get up early during the school year as it is. Besides, while they're sleeping, you have your own free time.

9. Make them your trip chronicler, photographer, and/or navigator. They should greatly enjoy such an incredible opportunity of great responsibility.

10. Considering bringing along a friend of his. This would allow your teen to have fun with a peer instead of pestering you.

11. Go somewhere they very much want to visit. This is especially good for the unmotivated.

12. Teenagers usually love luxury. The mere thought and prospect of staying in a resort, lolling by the pool, ordering room service may entice them.

13. You can even consider a one-on-one trip, with one parent and one teenager vacationing together. It can be more adventurous, and you'll certainly better your relationship.

14. Enjoy the time together while you can. Soon, they may not even want to vacation with you anymore.