Are We There Yet? Part IV

Many families can't, or won't, stay home during holidays. Your family is expecting you, or your vacation lodging has been booked many months ago. And now you finally have time off work! One secret, which is probably the most obvious, but often the least followed, is to travel on days that AREN'T the peak travel days. Be prepared for delays and long waiting times. Kids, especially, need something to keep their little minds occupied for longer periods of time. You can even read books to them, or they can read to themselves or you! Now would also be a good time to tell stories of your childhood holiday events. And, please, don't have the kids wait all day for the main meal, but instead give them a snack a couple of house before the meal, which would probably end early for them so they can play before dessert.

Mixing work and play, especially with kids in tow, is never easy, but it's sometimes necessary. Actually, business trips are often quite good for the kids. They get to see their parents in different lights, and get to see and sometimes participate in the adult world, which is itself a big deal to them. Of course, you would have to make sure that your children are able to attend. Perhaps one parent would be able to sit with them while the other goes to a meeting, or you and your spouse can share babysitting while the other does a part of the reception. Alternatively, you can always bring along a sitter, or use the hotel's children's facilities and sitting services if they are offered.

Traveling as a single parent, or as the only parent with your child, is often an event of its own caliber. These such travelings often produce a stronger bond between the two of you. Also, make sure your child does keep in contact with the other parent, so your child doesn't feel guilty about having a good time.

Traveling as a step-family is another story altogether. You have to figure out who stays in what bed/room with whom. You also have to make time for the child to spend with his natural parent. Try new activities and visit new places as a group, and sometimes go back to the usual activities as the separated parts of the family.

There are lots more to talk about when it comes with traveling with your family. Keep your eyes posted for the next issue. While you're waiting, though, head on over to www.kingarthur.myttn.com to get some great family vacation ideas!